I was struck recently by a very strange and disturbing thought. Cue the ominous music… doo-dee-doo-dee…

I was having lunch with one of my colleagues and noticed his hands, which are frail and  – well – old. It dawned on me that these people I work with are the people I will grow old with. It struck me that the likelihood of me having a life-changing event  – such as getting pregnant and going on maternity leave  – was fading fast. (For the record, I’ve no desire to get pregnant but it is a pretty life-changing event!)

(Aside: This is assuming I’m lucky! I could have a life-changing event – such as an illness, either me or a member of my family – if I’m unlucky. That doesn’t bear thinking about, not here anyway.)

In short, the potential for change was disappearing.

I’m in my early forties. Up until now I’d always assumed the world was my oyster and anything imaginable was possible (within the bounds of physics!). To reiterate the warning from the opening sequence of Stingray “Anything could happen in the next 30 minutes”.

Stingray Annual 1993

Stand By For Action!

It’s disconcerting to face-up to the realisation that I know exactly what will happen in the next 30 minutes! Even worse, established daily or weekly routines are likely to remain unchanged for the foreseeable future.

I’ve always said that I wanted to grow old disgracefully. “Rage, rage against the dying of the light” and all that. I’m happy to let my hair go grey and let my mood grow cantankerous. Most of all, I want to be healthy enough to enjoy living vibrantly. So growing old doesn’t worry me, other than acquiring some health conditions along the way.

But I don’t want to grow bitter. I want to be able to look back with pride on my achievements. And I do – mostly. I have three wonderful children, who make me so proud and happy as I watch them grow into decent and honourable humans; my husband and I have worked wonders on our home over the past twelve months to make the very fabric as happy as we are; and I have enjoyed a rich and varied career (if we gloss over the past five years).

An aside, in part explanation of my reference to the past five years: Since the collapse of the Irish economy in 2008 I’ve been waiting for the “other shoe to drop” as the phrase goes. The work I do is heavily based on funding from Central Government, who in turn have been in hock to the Troika (The IMF, European Central Bank & the European Commission). Our Department has lumbered along, keeping our roles meaningful by trying to be as indispensable as possible, all while under a cosh of the euphemistically titled “Workforce Planning” i.e. that our Department might be disbanded and the staff reallocated.

As my sister pointed out to me, I have taken up knitting (and crochet, spinning, quilting, you-name-it) over the past five years to the extent that I have (for which read “somewhat obsessively”) because of an inherent need for creativity that was no longer being satisfied in my Architectural career. When I first got back into knitting during 2007 and discovered resources for learning such as Knitty’s Coffeeshop and Ravelry my creative juices exploded!


Lacy Cropped Cardigan being re-sized to different gauge

Each new technique I learned led to new design ideas: a striped, felted bag using short-rows; a double-knit vest; a top-down hat with a lace pattern generated using Debbie New’s Cellular Automatoms. I saw everything in terms of knitting or crochet patterns. In the queue for a lunchtime sandwich I could reverse engineer the sweater of the person in front of me. I could then spend the afternoon snatching moments to sketch ideas in my notebook. I was fascinated, enthralled, energised!

Today, that same notebook, which I always keep in my wallet, is so tattered and worn that I have decided it needs to be retired. I went through it and marked all the design ideas. I was surprised to discover how far back they all date from – 2008 to 2010. And absolutely nothing in it after my failed Knitty submission (read it and weep!).


Potential Energy

Also today, I read a fabulous post by Elanor King of Catchloops.com all about how she became a designer in a recent publication by CoOperative Press, Hitch. She’s achieving exactly what I hoped would happen for me. But she went out and actively grabbed it for herself. With gumption and obvious design talent, she dared and won. Me? Other than the two months I spent preparing my Knitty submission I haven’t done much more about establishing myself in the knitting milieu than faff about on twitter. Did I imagine I would be randomly discovered and propelled into stardom, like some bus girl working in a dive in Hollywood? Actually,  yes, that would lovely, thanks.

No. Today as I retired my old Moleskine I resolved to release “so much potential in such a small space” (as @Knitterotica put it). There are at least 12 potential patterns in there: a mixture of women’s and men’s sweaters, some hats, some accessories. A collection, if you will. I’m resolving to transform the potential into reality and to publish (either self-publish or through the establish venues) one pattern per month – on average.

Will you cheer me on?

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22 Responses to “Potential”

  1. Bridget Says:

    YES YES YES!!!! Do it!

  2. hilser2013 Says:

    Right, waving Pom-poms and chanting your name. Go you!!!

  3. Alison Says:

    Absolutely go for it. [Edit: website link deleted]

  4. Yvonne Says:

    Of course we will! I am going to try to challenge myself to design more… or more specifically to write down/publishing the things I do design instead of just making them for myself. We can cheer eachother on 🙂

  5. Grainne Says:

    I have my cheer leader Pom poms out! Go for it!
    Your description resonates my craft life. You’re inspiring me today. Thanks D for putting it in words.

  6. aviewintomyworld Says:

    Yes! Love that you’re taking control, as my dad (and a certain large sports corporation before him) would say; Just Do It!!! Looking forward to seeing inside that notebook 🙂

  7. Alifeofherown Says:

    Yay! Go for it! I’ll be cheering you on. And I’m sure lots of us would help with tech editing and test knitting – though if I was to test knit a sweater you’d probably be waiting another 5 years for me to complete it!

  8. Anonymous Says:

    I WILL CHEER YOU ON! Just don’t expect me to knit anything, or you’ll be a long time waiting! But, CHEEEEERS!

    • undermeoxter Says:

      A cheer-leader with actual Dance & Choreography training? Excellent! You can be like the person @ the bow of a Roman galley: KNIT! PURL! KNIT! PURL!
      Thanks for your encouragement, Pat.

  9. Sophie Le Cuiche Says:

    “faffing about it on Twitter”: that’s me too: you mean that no one will discover us unless we put our work out there? You’re right, go for it. If you have some ideas that date back from 2008 and you still like them, they must be keepers!

    • undermeoxter Says:

      That’s what I was thinking: if I still feel these are valid after all this time then there must be something in them others will appreciate too.
      Thanks for your encouragement.

  10. Heather James McNamee Says:

    Aww that sounds awesome. Any updates on designs? I am still a beginner but I’d like to design patterns.. Mainly because I can’t seem to find ones that fit. My first attempt at a sweater has to be ripped out this weekend. Won’t fit over my bat wings. Remind me to do the math next time on stitch counts and measurements where patterns don’t include them!

  11. Taking Charge | Under Me Oxter - coz that's how I knit Says:

    […] design ideas in my last post was “stewing”. If you recall my previous blog-post “Potential” I had challenged myself to publish an average of one pattern per month for the next year. I […]

  12. Annus Horribilis | Under Me Oxter - coz that's how I knit Says:

    […] I’m hopeful that as I “Stay on the fucking bus.” I’ll soon have something tangible produced from all this potential. […]

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